So when I was a young girl I discovered kinky porn, I also would watch real sex on hbo and discover things on that. Due to those discovery's, I always have had a burning desire to get tied up. It looks so beautiful in the movies. I wanted it done to me. I also would see movies with BDSM clubs and that appealed to me for so long. But never did I know where to find one of those places, or a dungeon that had group play parties. I wanted to go watch, observe, learn, and try new things! But not only did I not know where to find something like that, I also did not have a partner who was interested in exploring that with me!
Now finally 10 years later technology has advanced and I can find whatever I want, also I have a partner who not only loves to learn new things, he also loves to please me. He may be a uber christen, and certain times things I enjoy make him nervous as to what God would think. But some how I caught him on a good day, after doing some google searching and finding a bondage class near us. I asked him to go with and he was down! At first I think he was weirded out, but as class progressed he seen that they are all about safety and also were not some weird satan cult, but were actually nice normal wonderful people who are into this. So not only did my boyfriend participate but he is excited to learn about it and attend class with me. He also payed attention, I had him show are room mate what he "learned in class" and he totally did and even attempted to do some other crazy things!! I love it. But enough about me, let me tell you about my discovery.
So last week I was at work and got struck with the idea to find a fetish club, so I googled it. But found nothing but Club X, so I went to there site and seen they offered classes every month near me for only $5, and not only that but the next one was in 2 days at my favorite local sex shop. So I decided I am going to go!!!! To be honest I was a little nervous about what to expect, but I was ready to find out!
So the day came, and we went. When we walked up the stairs to the class, the first thing we seen was a woman in her panties with duck tape over her nipples getting tied up by her partner, while the teacher was teaching next to them. But they weren't demonstrating for him, but were just doing their own thing, and it was such a turn on. It was all I could do to not stare, and pay attention to the teacher instead. We payed our $5 donation,signed our safety waver, showed our ids, and got our class handout! The guy explained that there is a class up north and two down south each month, and each teach 2 different ties. So if you went to both you would learn 6 ties a month! But it will rotate around, so if I went for 3 years to only the 1 up north, I would learn them all! But the class was neat, if you didn't have a partner they would pair you up the best they could, and they made sure everyone who wanted to tie or be tied got that to happen for them before the end of the class. A few more couples who were more advanced did there own thing, more chicks in panties and duck tape. One was a female couple and it was so beautiful watching them play, I wanted to ask to take a photo, but I did not want to interrupt there scene. The chick being tied was so into it moaning in pleasure. I was jealous. But before class had progressed to that, the teacher went over safety and different ropes and contracts and what not. Then taught the first tie, and he actually came and helped me and my boyfriend. Then we had a break and were told we got 10% off at the sex shop, so we went shopping. I got my ticket to ladies night at the store, and bought a new whip and a bra. Then we went back up stairs and learned the second tie which was a hair tie that made hair pulling so much more fun. Both times the instructor helped up and also because we gave him permission to touch me he turned my ties into more advanced body ones, showing my boyfriend and the class how to follow where the rope is leading and make a body tie! Another guy in class gave us a 2nd rope to use, and told my bf how to make the rope vibrate on my clit. So hot. Needless to say after class I went home and ordered some hemp rope online, so we can keep practicing and introduce shibari into our foreplay!
I didn't take any photos except of my tie on my bf, I did the figure 8 on him, so he could watch from a different angle, which actually helped him to understand it better. But you can tell how excited he is to introduce this sexy form of foreplay into our life!!!
check out how to do a hair tie here.
http://basicrope.blogspot.com/2011/03/basic-hair-tie.html
Here is the class hand out!
